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Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #981] Mon, 05 February 2007 20:08 Go to next message
lig  is currently offline lig
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OK here is where we will have the mentoring program for now. If you are looking for a mentor - or are willing to volunteer to mentor please sign in here noting whether you want to be a big sis or little sis or both.

Just remember that these kinds of programs take lots of work on both sides so if you are unable to commit to it - wait until you can.

Big Sis - your job is to lead the little sis to answers - not give them to her. You are encouraged to help in career decisions, learning direction/course, filling in holes in knowledge (or at least pointing them out) and anything else you wish to answer or learn along side your little sis. You are the guide to the PHP world for your little sis. You are also the one who ultimately accepts the mentor position of the little sis and all the responsibility it entails. If you feel it is not a good fit or just don't have the time and energy - that is perfectly acceptable.

Little Sis - your job is to listen and ask questions. You will be the driving force behind this partnership. You are perfectly capable of rejecting advice or direction if you choose to. You are the one who should be asking someone to mentor you. Try to pick someone who you would feel comfortable asking questions of or you think may become a friend over time. Knowledge isn't everything - ultimately we hope you become a partnership in time.

Hopefully we will build some lasting relationships this way.

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Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #982 is a reply to message #981 ] Mon, 05 February 2007 20:14 Go to previous messageGo to next message
lig  is currently offline lig
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accepting little sis's
I am open to be a mentor for 2 maybe 3 little sis's. I have already accepted one. I admit to being quite busy but would love to help others. I also admit to not knowing everything (server stuff, high level OO (enterprisey stuff) and anything front end in particular) but wouldn't mind learning with or through a little sis - as long as she is willing to struggle with me.

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Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #984 is a reply to message #981 ] Mon, 05 February 2007 21:12 Go to previous messageGo to next message
auroraeosrose  is currently offline auroraeosrose
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I'm willing to be a mentor for one or maybe two people. Although I'm fairly busy I'm almost always online Smile I work in a mainly windows environment and haven't use php4 in so long I've forgotten how - but for those who want to dig into anything from compiling php on windows, to diving into gui apps with php, and lots of OO fun, I'm willing to play along.
Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #987 is a reply to message #981 ] Tue, 06 February 2007 11:08 Go to previous messageGo to next message
lorna  is currently offline lorna
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I'm happy to be a big sis, and take one or two people as little sis' to help along the path. I don't have huge wealth of experience but I've been dabbling in PHP for six years so I hope I've got skills enough to accompany someone through specific queries as well as provide general support to another woman in the working world.

A bit more about me: I'm 26 and currently working with AIX + Oracle + PHP. My degree is in Electronic Engineering and I'm a vim enthusiast but I'll be happy to join in whatever your background. I have a particular interest in open-source projects and use them at the slightest excuse, my current favourites are dokuwiki, textpattern, joomla! and serendipity.


Lorna Mitchell (online at http://www.lornajane.net)
Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #1063 is a reply to message #981 ] Sat, 10 March 2007 22:11 Go to previous messageGo to next message
KathyReid  is currently offline KathyReid
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Hi everyone,

Happy to help where I can - have worked with PHP for around 7 years and have knowledge of Oracle, Smarty and PHPDoc.

Wondering whether there is a better way - the Big Sis L'il Sis idea is great (nice one!) - and it would be good to have like a 'PHP best practices' companion guide or something (almost like coding standards, but also with *why* something is done a particular way).

It would be good as a reference and for others in the community to use.

What does everyone think?
Should we have a 'PHP Best practices' thread?

Cheers,
K.
Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #1064 is a reply to message #981 ] Sun, 11 March 2007 18:24 Go to previous messageGo to next message
lorna  is currently offline lorna
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Kathy - a "best practices" thread with why as well as what would be fabulous, will you start us off? Please? I'm in a new job trying to get some coding standards in place and useful explanations of why things are done a certain way would be excellent Very Happy


Lorna Mitchell (online at http://www.lornajane.net)
Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #1067 is a reply to message #981 ] Sun, 11 March 2007 20:24 Go to previous messageGo to next message
kacjp  is currently offline kacjp
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I'll be a little sis Smile I'm always the littlest!

I've finally got a full time time job in web programming. I'm not up to OO yet, but getting closer, and running PHP 4.3 at work.

Some things I am interested in finding out about:

Improving performance of loops, arrays.
Best Practice (cos I am definite I am not implementing a lot of Best Practice!)
OO
Working in a PHP/Oracle environment
Assistance with Oracle (although not a necessity!)

Do you think you match up?! PM me! I'm in Australia too!
Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #1077 is a reply to message #981 ] Mon, 12 March 2007 06:01 Go to previous messageGo to next message
KathyReid  is currently offline KathyReid
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hahaha! And I'm always the biggest (5'9" and about that wide!!)

I'll kick off a thread and we might even grow a section out of it

Very Happy
Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #1145 is a reply to message #981 ] Mon, 09 April 2007 21:56 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Amanda  is currently offline Amanda
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Is everyone all matched up and happy or is there room for one more? I've been fiddling with PHP for the last couple months, and I'm learning some. But starting in May, I will be doing PHP exclusively for a while. My job is time consuming, but I don't really have to do anything other than babysit a bunch of dogs all night, so I'll have an incredible amount of time to learn. I'm very motivated, just hoping it doesn't fade off on me.

What I'm looking for really is just someone to point me in the right direction. Send me to a resource (ideally free because programming books can get pricey) and tell me what to learn and what sort of project to make to illustrate it.

Learning independently, I'm afraid I might be skipping over parts I need to work on just because they may not be very fun. I'm also at a very basic stage right now so I'm still a tad intimidated by the language.

Big sis's, let me know if I seem appealing as a little sis!
Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #1265 is a reply to message #1145 ] Mon, 21 May 2007 10:47 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Hey - count me in. I guess I could be either a big or little sis. I am only about 6 months into php and starting to code a few things of my own. I just started my own web design business last month and have taken on about 8 projects so learning more about php is at the top of my todo list. Just point me in the right direction. Smile


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Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #1381 is a reply to message #981 ] Wed, 04 July 2007 19:57 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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this is a great reference:
http://blog.reindel.com/2007/07/02/getting-the-most-from-a-m entor/


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Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #1673 is a reply to message #981 ] Wed, 19 December 2007 13:35 Go to previous messageGo to next message
backwardselvis  is currently offline backwardselvis
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Hi, everyone. I have been working with PHP for about 3 months now and could us a mentor. I am a guy so please keep that in mind. When I was on IRC Auroraeosrose mentioned that I could post here so I thought I would give it a shot. I have a project that I have been working on and it has been the driving force behind my learning. I am using REGEX to extract data into a Postgre DB. My next goal is to take these records and graph them. At work I interact with an Oracle DB on Solaris 9.

If anyone is interested in forming a friendship, I would appreciate it.

-thanks
elvis
Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #1782 is a reply to message #981 ] Fri, 18 January 2008 21:32 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Elazar  is currently offline Elazar
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I'm happy to be a mentor!

A little about me: I'm a 26 year-old guy living in Louisiana in the States. I'm married with three kids. I currently work for a medical IT company that operates on the LAMP platform. Before that, my specialties at my previous job were mostly with Oracle Forms and Reports, Oracle Designer, and Oracle Application Server (particularly PL/SQL-based data cartridges).

I started working with PHP in 2002 and have been loving it ever since. I've got some specialization in web scraping and all that it entails (HTTP protocol, HTML, XML, regular expressions, etc) and I've even written an article on the topic for php|architect magazine. I graduated from the University of Louisiana at Lafayette in 2006 with a bachelor's degree in computer science. I'm also a ZCE. You can find my blog at http://ishouldbecoding.com.

So, anyone still looking for a mentor? Smile

[Updated on: Sun, 25 May 2008 12:20]

Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #1787 is a reply to message #981 ] Thu, 24 January 2008 08:19 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I'd happily be a big sis.

A little about me: I'm 28, living in Norway(so I'm accessible during daytime Europe). I've got 5-6 years of PHP behind me(though not in a job), a bachelor in computer science, and experience in Pascal/Delphi(my fav), C#, Java, ASP.NET, Scheme, and tried a whole lot of other languages, and technologies.

I'm very friendly, and don't bite(unless requested to, of course). Try me on msn or mail me my name(no, pink isn't actually part of my name Wink) at vartdal.org


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Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #1986 is a reply to message #987 ] Tue, 13 May 2008 22:28 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Are you still taking a little sis? I am probably a little old to be a little sis, but am starting a new job using PHP in less than a month. I have done some programming with PHP on my own and am excited to join a team. I have always felt that I was on my own with my programming and other technology interests. None of my friends are interested in Tech things like I am.

Glad to be in a community.

Mary

Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #1990 is a reply to message #1986 ] Wed, 14 May 2008 07:50 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Elazar  is currently offline Elazar
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Hey Mary, nice to meet you. Smile At the moment, I'm only sporadically seeing/hearing from the one "little sis" I have. So, if you'd like me to be your "big sis," I'd be happy to have you. Congrats on the new job, glad to have you as part of the PHP community, and I hope we'll see you in #phpwomen on Freenode.
Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #2001 is a reply to message #981 ] Sun, 25 May 2008 12:08 Go to previous messageGo to next message
eChantal  is currently offline eChantal
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Hi,

If anyone is still accepting a little sis, I would like to join. I've been doing PHP for a few years, but just started OOP/PHP5 about 18 month ago. I don't feel confident enough in my skills to be a big sis, but, as my background is first (X)HTML and CSS, I'd be more than happy to help in that way.

I do not have any formal programing/computer science education so I sometimes get a little confused about terminology and vocabulary (or my lack of vocabulary). Embarassed

Thnaks


eChantal
Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #2003 is a reply to message #2001 ] Sun, 25 May 2008 12:19 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Elazar  is currently offline Elazar
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Hey Chantal, nice to meet you. Smile If you're looking for a big sis, I'd be happy to be yours. I often hang out in the #phpwomen IRC channel on Freenode. Beyond that, you can check out the contact page on my blog to get in touch with me. Look forward to hearing from you.
Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #2017 is a reply to message #1990 ] Fri, 30 May 2008 21:10 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I am not sure what big sis - little sis means but thanks for replying. I have not done much with forums; so I am kind of new at this. I have checked into the irc channel a few times.

thanks,

Mary
Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #2394 is a reply to message #981 ] Wed, 05 November 2008 10:20 Go to previous messageGo to next message
lorna  is currently offline lorna
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Just wanted to check in here and give a wave to all sisses, big and little. This thread is where people can find one another to join the mentoring scheme. So whether you're a little sis in need of some guidance or a big sis willing to help another, sign up here (guys also welcome, just be warned we will call you "sis"!)


Lorna Mitchell (online at http://www.lornajane.net)
Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #2396 is a reply to message #981 ] Thu, 06 November 2008 17:37 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I would like a big sister, keep in mind that I have A LOT to learn still.

Lise
Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #2401 is a reply to message #981 ] Mon, 10 November 2008 14:09 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I’m happy to be a big sis to any budding devs.

I’m a 23-year old guy and I live in England; I can’t say I have special expertise in any specific field, but if you’re looking for a mentor in general development then I think I can help.

Shoot me a PM/IM if you’re interested.
Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #2454 is a reply to message #981 ] Wed, 03 December 2008 12:31 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #2618 is a reply to message #981 ] Fri, 20 March 2009 05:44 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Hi all,
I heard about this site & the Big Sis, Little Sis ideas from Php Architect, & must say that i think it is a great idea.

I am a 31 years old guy, working as a web developer for about 8 years, which 3 of them is in PHP. I can't say i am an expert, i never really had a formal education in programming so i always feel like i a missing something but i always succeed to solve the issues i encounter.

Any way, would like to have both a big sister & little sister , i think i can assist to developers in their first steps & also will love to have a big sister to consult on new issues.

Cheers,
Sagee
Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #2619 is a reply to message #2618 ] Fri, 20 March 2009 09:14 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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Just to make sure you understand how it works, remember that if you want a big sis/mentor, you need to find someone you think you will feel comfortable with and then ask them to be your mentor. We have both men and women willing to be a big sis. If you have any problems finding one, feel free to pm me for help.


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Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #2636 is a reply to message #981 ] Thu, 02 April 2009 23:26 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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I would like a big sis. Though I have a nortorious hard head due to my learning disability. So how do I go about this?


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Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #2779 is a reply to message #981 ] Fri, 21 August 2009 16:29 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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i could really use a big sis!

i've got some intro info on the introductions thread if you want to know more about me in general.

basically, i'm serious about reforging myself into a developer (so far i really like php!) and could use a hand.

i'm mostly the self-teaching type who has no problem scouring google for the answers, but there's a few questions i've been unable to solve on my own.

for the most part, programming theory is my weak point. i don't come from a computer science background, so this is my first experience with variables, functions, arrays, and such.

at this point, i can understand most of the vocabulary. i can read a piece of code, and generally work out what it's accomplishing. but writing it myself and understanding how to decide when to use a loop, how to leverage an array? that's where i get stuck.

maybe i've just not been doing this long enough yet, but regardless, i feel like i could use someone at my back.

anyone want to take me on? i have decent design skills to offer in trade if anyone needs their blog redone or something. Smile
Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #2796 is a reply to message #981 ] Wed, 26 August 2009 10:30 Go to previous messageGo to next message
Remi_Woler  is currently offline Remi_Woler
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After some thought and some input from close friends, I believe it will be good for the community and myself if I volunteer to be a mentor to whoever needs one.

While I started my software adventure in desktop application development, I switched to web application development around 2002. After a year of two ASP (vbscript) development, I switched to PHP, and have been developing mostly in PHP for the last 5 years, besides some C++, C# and Java. I became a Zend Certified Engineer a little over 2 years ago, and have been working as a frontend oriented (with the occasional backend task) PHP Web developer for Zend Technologies' eBiz team. A more detailed picture of me is drawn in this interview.

I like to teach and explain, and love to see people learn and grow, especially if it's beyond what they expected to be their own limits. If you choose me to be your mentor, don't expect to get an intelligent google, spitting out a ready-to-use answer whenever you have a question. Expect that you will have to work for it to learn, and will actually gain knowledge, instead of getting a use&forget answer.

Since this is my first chance at mentoring, I will be taking on 1 protege only. Depending on mutual experiences, I might extend this in the future, or forget about mentoring at all. One small remark: I'm from the Netherlands, so I will likely not be completely in your TimeZone, and I may have some grammar issues at times.

I currently don't have any protegees. If you would like to become one, feel free to contact me by forum email or forum private message, or find me on irc.freenode.net/#phpc. (This last line will be updated when the situation changes)

~RW


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Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #2984 is a reply to message #2796 ] Mon, 18 January 2010 03:17 Go to previous messageGo to next message
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This thread seems to be inactive for long time!

Common sisters (big/small) .....


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Re: Big Sis - Little Sis - Mentoring [message #3007 is a reply to message #981 ] Wed, 17 February 2010 09:33 Go to previous message
ElizabethN  is currently offline ElizabethN
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Hello all,

As this has been an important part of the PHPWomen mission, we want to make our mentorship program a priority in 2010. We will be focusing more of our efforts on getting the word out about the program, and giving it a little more structure.

With that in mind, if you have actively participated in the program, either currently, or in the past, can you please contact me at elizabeth-at-naramore-dot-net or PM on here?

I'm interested in some information from you:
-are you a big sis or little sis (or both?)
-what has your experience been with the program?
-how can we make it better?

Thanks much - your input is extremely valuable to us!
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